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James Marshal #1 / 6
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 Am I a hypochondriac?
Hi, my name is James and I am wondering what's wrong with me, or indeed, if nothing is wrong at all. My mother seems to have every single illness far worse than anyone else has, and of course has had every illness known to man. I think she is probably a hypochondriac, which makes me wonder if I am too. I am 35 years old, and I seem to get far too many unexplainable symptoms all the time. I am one of those people who never go to the doctor until I have about 3 things wrong with me, and then see him about all three at once, and probably don't need to visit the doctor more often than once every 12-18 months or so. I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an inch or so to the left, right, or down. It gives me a sharp pulling pain in my shoulder. This can switch on and off like a light. I could be walking across the street and it starts, and will be with me for 3 days, and then go away as suddenly as it started. I took 2x 900MG Motrin for 30 days and it made things a little better, but now I have finished the course it's starting up again. Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places. For instance, my top lip or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why. A few weeks back I couldn't raise my feet off the ground higher than 6 inches or so without pain in my hips, and if I tried to step over my daughter's baby gate sometimes my hip would just give way. I almost fell over in a few stores when it decided to give way as I was standing still. Now it's fine though. Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the same few spots. Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my right thigh. Right now, nothing hurts. Lately I have had absolutely no energy, and been very "easily defeated". I can sleep until 11am if left (we go to bed at 1-2am), am finding my mental capacity seems to be dwindling, and have very little creative flow or vocabulary. My IQ is a reasonable 128, but I frequently find myself feeling extremely stupid because I misunderstood something, or misread a very simple sentence. I never used to be like this, and I certainly don't think I should be like it at 35 years old. Although I am not generally a depressed kind of person and everyone else thinks of me as amusing and happy, I find myself with this feeling of hopelessness, and I don't have a clue why. My memory has all but disappeared, and my already quite poor eyesight sometimes seems dreadful. Sometimes I'll sit at the dining table with my in laws and I can't even bring myself to talk to them, or can't think of a single thing to say. I am usually pretty talkative and fun loving, but there are times (increasingly so) where I don't have a single conversational sentence in my head. This is odd, coming from someone who is known to "talk too much". Whatever could be wrong with me? I feel like I'm falling apart mentally and physically. I used to feel like I could take on the world,. I think I'm happy, have a lovely wife who I am very happy with and a beautiful little girl 16 months old. We do okay, pay the bills on time and don't really have any pressing issues or regular worries - so why am I falling apart? I apologize for the length of this, I have been living like this for a really long time and only just started to wonder if this is not just apart of normal life... it seems nobody else my age has these odd things happening. If anyone could point me in the right direction it would be most appreciated.
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Sat, 09 Apr 2005 11:22:44 GMT |
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 Am I a hypochondriac?
I don't think so. Some doctors might, but any doctor that even suggest that is incompetant and arrogant, and should be avoided. If you were truly a hypochondriac, you would have seen the doctor a million times, and would be worried that your shoulder pain was a form of cancer, etc. Anyways, you should go see a good internist, your symptoms strongly suggest some sort of autoimmune illness and should be investigated or ruled out. Thanks, Mike -- To email me remove the X's in my email address
Quote: > Hi, my name is James and I am wondering what's wrong with me, or indeed, if > nothing is wrong at all. My mother seems to have every single illness far > worse than anyone else has, and of course has had every illness known to > man. I think she is probably a hypochondriac, which makes me wonder if I am > too. > I am 35 years old, and I seem to get far too many unexplainable symptoms all > the time. I am one of those people who never go to the doctor until I have > about 3 things wrong with me, and then see him about all three at once, and > probably don't need to visit the doctor more often than once every 12-18 > months or so. > I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just > aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an > inch or so to the left, right, or down. It gives me a sharp pulling pain in > my shoulder. This can switch on and off like a light. I could be walking > across the street and it starts, and will be with me for 3 days, and then go > away as suddenly as it started. I took 2x 900MG Motrin for 30 days and it > made things a little better, but now I have finished the course it's > starting up again. > Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places. For instance, my top lip > or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why. > A few weeks back I couldn't raise my feet off the ground higher than 6 > inches or so without pain in my hips, and if I tried to step over my > daughter's baby gate sometimes my hip would just give way. I almost fell > over in a few stores when it decided to give way as I was standing still. > Now it's fine though. > Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the > same few spots. Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and > hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my > right thigh. Right now, nothing hurts. > Lately I have had absolutely no energy, and been very "easily defeated". I > can sleep until 11am if left (we go to bed at 1-2am), am finding my mental > capacity seems to be dwindling, and have very little creative flow or > vocabulary. My IQ is a reasonable 128, but I frequently find myself feeling > extremely stupid because I misunderstood something, or misread a very simple > sentence. I never used to be like this, and I certainly don't think I > should be like it at 35 years old. Although I am not generally a depressed > kind of person and everyone else thinks of me as amusing and happy, I find > myself with this feeling of hopelessness, and I don't have a clue why. My > memory has all but disappeared, and my already quite poor eyesight sometimes > seems dreadful. > Sometimes I'll sit at the dining table with my in laws and I can't even > bring myself to talk to them, or can't think of a single thing to say. I am > usually pretty talkative and fun loving, but there are times (increasingly > so) where I don't have a single conversational sentence in my head. This is > odd, coming from someone who is known to "talk too much". > Whatever could be wrong with me? I feel like I'm falling apart mentally and > physically. I used to feel like I could take on the world,. I think I'm > happy, have a lovely wife who I am very happy with and a beautiful little > girl 16 months old. We do okay, pay the bills on time and don't really have > any pressing issues or regular worries - so why am I falling apart? > I apologize for the length of this, I have been living like this for a > really long time and only just started to wonder if this is not just apart > of normal life... it seems nobody else my age has these odd things > happening. > If anyone could point me in the right direction it would be most > appreciated.
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Sat, 09 Apr 2005 14:48:49 GMT |
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Richard Cavel #3 / 6
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 Am I a hypochondriac?
Quote: > I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just > aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an > inch or so to the left, right, or down. It gives me a sharp pulling pain in > my shoulder. This can switch on and off like a light.
This is pretty vague. We'd need to know more about the pain. Quote: > Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places. For instance, my top lip > or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why.
Completely numb? So you could bite your lip and not know? That sounds very strange. Quote: > Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the > same few spots. Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and > hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my > right thigh. Right now, nothing hurts.
You have a whole bunch of weird symptoms and you need to submit yourself to a formal interview. Here are my thoughts on possible diagnoses: Depression Multiple Sclerosis Diabetes Hypothyroidism Trigeminal neuralgia Lifestyle ({*filter*}, {*filter*}, etc) I'd suggest that you see a good GP. I think it's also worth asking to see a specialist - maybe a general internal medicine physician or neurologist.
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Sat, 09 Apr 2005 16:21:54 GMT |
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James Marshal #4 / 6
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 Am I a hypochondriac?
Quote: > I don't think so. Some doctors might, but any doctor that even suggest that > is incompetant and arrogant, and should be avoided. If you were truly a > hypochondriac, you would have seen the doctor a million times, and would be > worried that your shoulder pain was a form of cancer, etc. > Anyways, you should go see a good internist, your symptoms strongly suggest > some sort of autoimmune illness and should be investigated or ruled out. > Thanks, > Mike
Thanks Mike, maybe writing that post has made me realize it's not just "this and that" and need once and for all to visit the doctor and find out if it really is a problem.
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Sun, 10 Apr 2005 14:25:11 GMT |
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James Marshal #5 / 6
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 Am I a hypochondriac?
Quote: > > I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just > > aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an > > inch or so to the left, right, or down. It gives me a sharp pulling pain > in > > my shoulder. This can switch on and off like a light. > This is pretty vague. We'd need to know more about the pain.
99% of the time it's just a dull ache in my shoulder muscle, that's on a good day. A bad day involves a shooting pain from my neck down to the lower right side of my shoulder every time I move my head more than an inch to the left, right, or forward. Moving my head makes me feel like something is "pulling" but moving my shoulder just gives me a sharp stabbing pain. Quote: > > Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places. For instance, my top > lip > > or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why. > Completely numb? So you could bite your lip and not know? That sounds very > strange.
Maybe I should have said tingling. This is teaching me to be more precise about symptoms. Odd parts of me will tingle. Quote: > > Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the > > same few spots. Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and > > hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my > > right thigh. Right now, nothing hurts. > You have a whole bunch of weird symptoms and you need to submit yourself to > a formal interview. Here are my thoughts on possible diagnoses: > Depression > Multiple Sclerosis > Diabetes > Hypothyroidism > Trigeminal neuralgia > Lifestyle ({*filter*}, {*filter*}, etc)
I very rarely drink. Maybe one or two beers at a bar-b-q once every few months, but aopart from that, nothing. Quote: > I'd suggest that you see a good GP. I think it's also worth asking to see a > specialist - maybe a general internal medicine physician or neurologist.
Thank you to both Michael and Richard. I'll make an appointment to see my doctor next week.
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Sun, 10 Apr 2005 14:25:12 GMT |
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Howard Homle #6 / 6
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 Am I a hypochondriac?
On Tue, 22 Oct 2002 03:22:44 GMT, "James Marshall" Quote:
>Hi, my name is James and I am wondering what's wrong with me, or indeed, if >nothing is wrong at all. My mother seems to have every single illness far >worse than anyone else has, and of course has had every illness known to >man. I think she is probably a hypochondriac, which makes me wonder if I am >too. >I am 35 years old, and I seem to get far too many unexplainable symptoms all >the time. I am one of those people who never go to the doctor until I have >about 3 things wrong with me, and then see him about all three at once, and >probably don't need to visit the doctor more often than once every 12-18 >months or so. >I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just >aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an >inch or so to the left, right, or down. It gives me a sharp pulling pain in >my shoulder. This can switch on and off like a light. I could be walking >across the street and it starts, and will be with me for 3 days, and then go >away as suddenly as it started. I took 2x 900MG Motrin for 30 days and it >made things a little better, but now I have finished the course it's >starting up again. >Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places. For instance, my top lip >or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why. >A few weeks back I couldn't raise my feet off the ground higher than 6 >inches or so without pain in my hips, and if I tried to step over my >daughter's baby gate sometimes my hip would just give way. I almost fell >over in a few stores when it decided to give way as I was standing still. >Now it's fine though. >Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the >same few spots. Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and >hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my >right thigh. Right now, nothing hurts. >Lately I have had absolutely no energy, and been very "easily defeated". I >can sleep until 11am if left (we go to bed at 1-2am), am finding my mental >capacity seems to be dwindling, and have very little creative flow or >vocabulary. My IQ is a reasonable 128, but I frequently find myself feeling >extremely stupid because I misunderstood something, or misread a very simple >sentence. I never used to be like this, and I certainly don't think I >should be like it at 35 years old. Although I am not generally a depressed >kind of person and everyone else thinks of me as amusing and happy, I find >myself with this feeling of hopelessness, and I don't have a clue why. My >memory has all but disappeared, and my already quite poor eyesight sometimes >seems dreadful. >Sometimes I'll sit at the dining table with my in laws and I can't even >bring myself to talk to them, or can't think of a single thing to say. I am >usually pretty talkative and fun loving, but there are times (increasingly >so) where I don't have a single conversational sentence in my head. This is >odd, coming from someone who is known to "talk too much". >Whatever could be wrong with me? I feel like I'm falling apart mentally and >physically. I used to feel like I could take on the world,. I think I'm >happy, have a lovely wife who I am very happy with and a beautiful little >girl 16 months old. We do okay, pay the bills on time and don't really have >any pressing issues or regular worries - so why am I falling apart? >I apologize for the length of this, I have been living like this for a >really long time and only just started to wonder if this is not just apart >of normal life... it seems nobody else my age has these odd things >happening. >If anyone could point me in the right direction it would be most >appreciated.
You probably have more than one thing wrong, but you should see your doctor and schedule enough time to discuss how you're feeling... H2
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Sun, 10 Apr 2005 21:51:49 GMT |
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