Am I a hypochondriac? 
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 Am I a hypochondriac?

Hi, my name is James and I am wondering what's wrong with me, or indeed, if
nothing is wrong at all.  My mother seems to have every single illness far
worse than anyone else has, and of course has had every illness known to
man.  I think she is probably a hypochondriac, which makes me wonder if I am
too.

I am 35 years old, and I seem to get far too many unexplainable symptoms all
the time.  I am one of those people who never go to the doctor until I have
about 3 things wrong with me, and then see him about all three at once, and
probably don't need to visit the doctor more often than once every 12-18
months or so.

I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just
aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an
inch or so to the left, right, or down.  It gives me a sharp pulling pain in
my shoulder.  This can switch on and off like a light.  I could be walking
across the street and it starts, and will be with me for 3 days, and then go
away as suddenly as it started.  I took 2x 900MG Motrin for 30 days and it
made things a little better, but now I have finished the course it's
starting up again.

Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places.  For instance, my top lip
or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why.

A few weeks back I couldn't raise my feet off the ground higher than 6
inches or so without pain in my hips, and if I tried to step over my
daughter's baby gate sometimes my hip would just give way.  I almost fell
over in a few stores when it decided to give way as I was standing still.
Now it's fine though.

Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the
same few spots.  Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and
hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my
right thigh.  Right now, nothing hurts.

Lately I have had absolutely no energy, and been very "easily defeated".  I
can sleep until 11am if left (we go to bed at 1-2am), am finding my mental
capacity seems to be dwindling, and have very little creative flow or
vocabulary.  My IQ is a reasonable 128, but I frequently find myself feeling
extremely stupid because I misunderstood something, or misread a very simple
sentence.  I never used to be like this, and I certainly don't think I
should be like it at 35 years old.  Although I am not generally a depressed
kind of person and everyone else thinks of me as amusing and happy, I find
myself with this feeling of hopelessness, and I don't have a clue why.  My
memory has all but disappeared, and my already quite poor eyesight sometimes
seems dreadful.

Sometimes I'll sit at the dining table with my in laws and I can't even
bring myself to talk to them, or can't think of a single thing to say.  I am
usually pretty talkative and fun loving, but there are times (increasingly
so) where I don't have a single conversational sentence in my head.  This is
odd, coming from someone who is known to "talk too much".

Whatever could be wrong with me?  I feel like I'm falling apart mentally and
physically.  I used to feel like I could take on the world,.  I think I'm
happy, have a lovely wife who I am very happy with and a beautiful little
girl 16 months old.  We do okay, pay the bills on time and don't really have
any pressing issues or regular worries - so why am I falling apart?

I apologize for the length of this, I have been living like this for a
really long time and only just started to wonder if this is not just apart
of normal life... it seems nobody else my age has these odd things
happening.

If anyone could point me in the right direction it would be most
appreciated.



Sat, 09 Apr 2005 11:22:44 GMT
 Am I a hypochondriac?
I don't think so.  Some doctors might, but any doctor that even suggest that
is incompetant and arrogant, and should be avoided.  If you were truly a
hypochondriac, you would have seen the doctor a million times, and would be
worried that your shoulder pain was a form of cancer, etc.

Anyways, you should go see a good internist, your symptoms strongly suggest
some sort of autoimmune illness and should be investigated or ruled out.

Thanks,

Mike

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Quote:
> Hi, my name is James and I am wondering what's wrong with me, or indeed,
if
> nothing is wrong at all.  My mother seems to have every single illness far
> worse than anyone else has, and of course has had every illness known to
> man.  I think she is probably a hypochondriac, which makes me wonder if I
am
> too.

> I am 35 years old, and I seem to get far too many unexplainable symptoms
all
> the time.  I am one of those people who never go to the doctor until I
have
> about 3 things wrong with me, and then see him about all three at once,
and
> probably don't need to visit the doctor more often than once every 12-18
> months or so.

> I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just
> aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an
> inch or so to the left, right, or down.  It gives me a sharp pulling pain
in
> my shoulder.  This can switch on and off like a light.  I could be walking
> across the street and it starts, and will be with me for 3 days, and then
go
> away as suddenly as it started.  I took 2x 900MG Motrin for 30 days and it
> made things a little better, but now I have finished the course it's
> starting up again.

> Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places.  For instance, my top
lip
> or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why.

> A few weeks back I couldn't raise my feet off the ground higher than 6
> inches or so without pain in my hips, and if I tried to step over my
> daughter's baby gate sometimes my hip would just give way.  I almost fell
> over in a few stores when it decided to give way as I was standing still.
> Now it's fine though.

> Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the
> same few spots.  Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and
> hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my
> right thigh.  Right now, nothing hurts.

> Lately I have had absolutely no energy, and been very "easily defeated".
I
> can sleep until 11am if left (we go to bed at 1-2am), am finding my mental
> capacity seems to be dwindling, and have very little creative flow or
> vocabulary.  My IQ is a reasonable 128, but I frequently find myself
feeling
> extremely stupid because I misunderstood something, or misread a very
simple
> sentence.  I never used to be like this, and I certainly don't think I
> should be like it at 35 years old.  Although I am not generally a
depressed
> kind of person and everyone else thinks of me as amusing and happy, I find
> myself with this feeling of hopelessness, and I don't have a clue why.  My
> memory has all but disappeared, and my already quite poor eyesight
sometimes
> seems dreadful.

> Sometimes I'll sit at the dining table with my in laws and I can't even
> bring myself to talk to them, or can't think of a single thing to say.  I
am
> usually pretty talkative and fun loving, but there are times (increasingly
> so) where I don't have a single conversational sentence in my head.  This
is
> odd, coming from someone who is known to "talk too much".

> Whatever could be wrong with me?  I feel like I'm falling apart mentally
and
> physically.  I used to feel like I could take on the world,.  I think I'm
> happy, have a lovely wife who I am very happy with and a beautiful little
> girl 16 months old.  We do okay, pay the bills on time and don't really
have
> any pressing issues or regular worries - so why am I falling apart?

> I apologize for the length of this, I have been living like this for a
> really long time and only just started to wonder if this is not just apart
> of normal life... it seems nobody else my age has these odd things
> happening.

> If anyone could point me in the right direction it would be most
> appreciated.



Sat, 09 Apr 2005 14:48:49 GMT
 Am I a hypochondriac?

Quote:
> I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just
> aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an
> inch or so to the left, right, or down.  It gives me a sharp pulling pain
in
> my shoulder.  This can switch on and off like a light.

This is pretty vague.  We'd need to know more about the pain.

Quote:
> Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places.  For instance, my top
lip
> or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why.

Completely numb?  So you could bite your lip and not know?  That sounds very
strange.

Quote:
> Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the
> same few spots.  Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and
> hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my
> right thigh.  Right now, nothing hurts.

You have a whole bunch of weird symptoms and you need to submit yourself to
a formal interview.  Here are my thoughts on possible diagnoses:

Depression
Multiple Sclerosis
Diabetes
Hypothyroidism
Trigeminal neuralgia
Lifestyle ({*filter*}, {*filter*}, etc)

I'd suggest that you see a good GP.  I think it's also worth asking to see a
specialist - maybe a general internal medicine physician or neurologist.



Sat, 09 Apr 2005 16:21:54 GMT
 Am I a hypochondriac?

Quote:
> I don't think so.  Some doctors might, but any doctor that even suggest
that
> is incompetant and arrogant, and should be avoided.  If you were truly a
> hypochondriac, you would have seen the doctor a million times, and would
be
> worried that your shoulder pain was a form of cancer, etc.

> Anyways, you should go see a good internist, your symptoms strongly
suggest
> some sort of autoimmune illness and should be investigated or ruled out.

> Thanks,

> Mike

Thanks Mike, maybe writing that post has made me realize it's not just "this
and that" and need once and for all to visit the doctor and find out if it
really is a problem.


Sun, 10 Apr 2005 14:25:11 GMT
 Am I a hypochondriac?

Quote:
> > I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just
> > aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even
an
> > inch or so to the left, right, or down.  It gives me a sharp pulling
pain
> in
> > my shoulder.  This can switch on and off like a light.

> This is pretty vague.  We'd need to know more about the pain.

99% of the time it's just a dull ache in my shoulder muscle, that's on a
good day.  A bad day involves a shooting pain from my neck down to the lower
right side of my shoulder every time I move my head more than an inch to the
left, right, or forward.  Moving my head makes me feel like something is
"pulling" but moving my shoulder just gives me a sharp stabbing pain.

Quote:

> > Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places.  For instance, my top
> lip
> > or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why.

> Completely numb?  So you could bite your lip and not know?  That sounds
very
> strange.

Maybe I should have said tingling.  This is teaching me to be more precise
about symptoms.  Odd parts of me will tingle.

Quote:

> > Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in
the
> > same few spots.  Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and
> > hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's
my
> > right thigh.  Right now, nothing hurts.

> You have a whole bunch of weird symptoms and you need to submit yourself
to
> a formal interview.  Here are my thoughts on possible diagnoses:

> Depression
> Multiple Sclerosis
> Diabetes
> Hypothyroidism
> Trigeminal neuralgia
> Lifestyle ({*filter*}, {*filter*}, etc)

I very rarely drink.  Maybe one or two beers at a bar-b-q once every few
months, but aopart from that, nothing.

Quote:

> I'd suggest that you see a good GP.  I think it's also worth asking to see
a
> specialist - maybe a general internal medicine physician or neurologist.

Thank you to both Michael and Richard.  I'll make an appointment to see my
doctor next week.


Sun, 10 Apr 2005 14:25:12 GMT
 Am I a hypochondriac?
On Tue, 22 Oct 2002 03:22:44 GMT, "James Marshall"

Quote:

>Hi, my name is James and I am wondering what's wrong with me, or indeed, if
>nothing is wrong at all.  My mother seems to have every single illness far
>worse than anyone else has, and of course has had every illness known to
>man.  I think she is probably a hypochondriac, which makes me wonder if I am
>too.

>I am 35 years old, and I seem to get far too many unexplainable symptoms all
>the time.  I am one of those people who never go to the doctor until I have
>about 3 things wrong with me, and then see him about all three at once, and
>probably don't need to visit the doctor more often than once every 12-18
>months or so.

>I have had a very painful shoulder for about 2 years. some days it just
>aches a little, other days it is extremely painful to move my head even an
>inch or so to the left, right, or down.  It gives me a sharp pulling pain in
>my shoulder.  This can switch on and off like a light.  I could be walking
>across the street and it starts, and will be with me for 3 days, and then go
>away as suddenly as it started.  I took 2x 900MG Motrin for 30 days and it
>made things a little better, but now I have finished the course it's
>starting up again.

>Then there's the peculiar numbness in odd places.  For instance, my top lip
>or my ear will go numb, and I haven't a clue why.

>A few weeks back I couldn't raise my feet off the ground higher than 6
>inches or so without pain in my hips, and if I tried to step over my
>daughter's baby gate sometimes my hip would just give way.  I almost fell
>over in a few stores when it decided to give way as I was standing still.
>Now it's fine though.

>Add to this painful skin, which seems to move around but is usually in the
>same few spots.  Frequently one side of my face is sore to the touch and
>hurts very slightly without being touched at all, and other times it's my
>right thigh.  Right now, nothing hurts.

>Lately I have had absolutely no energy, and been very "easily defeated".  I
>can sleep until 11am if left (we go to bed at 1-2am), am finding my mental
>capacity seems to be dwindling, and have very little creative flow or
>vocabulary.  My IQ is a reasonable 128, but I frequently find myself feeling
>extremely stupid because I misunderstood something, or misread a very simple
>sentence.  I never used to be like this, and I certainly don't think I
>should be like it at 35 years old.  Although I am not generally a depressed
>kind of person and everyone else thinks of me as amusing and happy, I find
>myself with this feeling of hopelessness, and I don't have a clue why.  My
>memory has all but disappeared, and my already quite poor eyesight sometimes
>seems dreadful.

>Sometimes I'll sit at the dining table with my in laws and I can't even
>bring myself to talk to them, or can't think of a single thing to say.  I am
>usually pretty talkative and fun loving, but there are times (increasingly
>so) where I don't have a single conversational sentence in my head.  This is
>odd, coming from someone who is known to "talk too much".

>Whatever could be wrong with me?  I feel like I'm falling apart mentally and
>physically.  I used to feel like I could take on the world,.  I think I'm
>happy, have a lovely wife who I am very happy with and a beautiful little
>girl 16 months old.  We do okay, pay the bills on time and don't really have
>any pressing issues or regular worries - so why am I falling apart?

>I apologize for the length of this, I have been living like this for a
>really long time and only just started to wonder if this is not just apart
>of normal life... it seems nobody else my age has these odd things
>happening.

>If anyone could point me in the right direction it would be most
>appreciated.

You probably have more than one thing wrong, but you should see your
doctor and schedule enough time to discuss how you're feeling...  H2


Sun, 10 Apr 2005 21:51:49 GMT
 
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